error EGLFS enabled but pre-condition fail, installing qt on Rpi3

im trying to compile from source Qt 5.15.8 LTS into my rpi3, i did updated/upgraded and follow all the steps of this tutorial, but i cant compile if i use the -opengl and -eglfs options, every time i get the same error Feature "eglfs" was enabled, but the pre-condition failed , same for opengl, i can configure/compile as long i dont use those 2 options, but sadly when i try to run any compiled program using the qt lybraries i get the follow error qt.qpa.plugin: could not find the qt platform plugin "xcb" in "" same for eglfs, and only give me 4 options, linuxfb, minimal, offscreen, vnc

i did read somewhere that the problem might be a conflict betwen the broadcom and meza libraries, but im using a rpi3 and installed the latest os from the rpi page.

i have been checking every tutorial, example and qt forum to no avail, honestly i start to believe that using qt on rpi3 is imposible, as anyone ever been capable of compiling and running apps on the rpi3?

note: im using vscode+cmake via ssh from my laptop to the rpi and it works ok, the only problem is that im unable to start any window on the rpi screen.

no mather if i use any of the follow, i cant configure, i have to remove all of them in order for configure script to work -eglfs -opengl -xcb

EDIT, forgot to add the output of the compile as well my compile configuration

EDIT2 while checking the installed programs on my rpi3 i did found i have by default installed qt gui module(libqt5gui5-5.15.2+dfsg-9+rpi1) as well others but they seems to be libraries, theres anyway to use those to compile using vscode instead of the header files?, that way i might avoid compiling from scracht the entire qt framework, last time took me like 40 hours to fully compile

Configuration

if i try to compile using the -eglfs i get the follow error

when i check if eglfs is aviable its not (QPA Backends)

if i compile without the opengl and eglfs i can create programs but im unable to run it and get the next error

If all you want is the version of Qt provided by Raspberry OS, then you can probably get away with installing the dev packages:

sudo apt install qtbase5-dev qtchooser qt5-qmake qtbase5-dev-tools

I'm not sure if you are looking for the X11 version or the eglfs version though, this isn't clear.