Check if value in an object array exist golang

I am trying to check if a value exist on the mongo db before appending new one to it but I keep getting an error every time.

    obId, _ := primitive.ObjectIDFromHex(id)
    	query := bson.D{{Key: "_id", Value: obId}}
    
    	var result bson.M
    	er := r.collection.FindOne(ctx, bson.M{"_id": obId, "statusData.status": bson.M{"$in": []string{string(p.Status)}}}).Decode(&result)
    	if er != nil {
    		if er == mongo.ErrNoDocuments {
    			return nil, errors.New(fmt.Sprintf("ERR NA  %v, %v", er.Error(), p.Status))
    		}
    		return nil, errors.New(fmt.Sprintf("ERR NORR  %v", er.Error()))
    	}

doc, err := utils.ToDoc(p)
	if err != nil {
		return nil, errors.New(err.Error())
	}

	update := bson.D{{Key: "$set", Value: doc}}
	res := r.collection.FindOneAndUpdate(ctx, query, update, options.FindOneAndUpdate().SetReturnDocument(1))

my document looks like this

{
  "statusData": [
                {
                    "status": "new",
                    "message": "You created a new dispatch request",
                    "createdAt": "1657337212751",
                    "updatedAt": null
                },
                {
                    "status": "assigned",
                    "message": "Justin has been assigned to you",
                    "createdAt": "1657412029130",
                    "updatedAt": null,
                    "_id": "62ca19bdf7d864001cabfa4a"
                }
            ],
            "createdAt": "2022-07-10T00:09:01.785Z",

....
}

there are different statuses and I want to be sure same status are not being sent to the db multiple times before updating the db with new value.

type StatusType string

const (
	NEW              StatusType = "new"
	ACKNOWLEDGED     StatusType = "acknowledged"
	ASSIGNED         StatusType = "assigned"
	REJECT           StatusType = "rejected"
	CANCEL           StatusType = "cancelled"
	COMPLETE         StatusType = "completed"
)

utils.ToDoc

func ToDoc(v interface{}) (doc *bson.D, err error) {
	data, err := bson.Marshal(v)
	if err != nil {
		return
	}

	err = bson.Unmarshal(data, &doc)
	return
}

Tried update

filter := bson.M{
		"_id":               obId,
		"statusData.status": bson.M{"$ne": p.Status},
	}
	update := bson.M{
		"$push": bson.M{
			"statusData": newStatusToAdd,
		},
		"$set": bson.D{{Key: "$set", Value: doc}},
	}

	result, err := r.collection.UpdateOne(ctx, filter, update)
	if err != nil {
		// Handle error
		return nil, errors.New(err.Error())
	}
	if result.MatchedCount == 0 {
		// The status already exists in statusData
	} else if result.ModifiedCount == 1 {
		// new status was added successfuly
	}

returns error

> "write exception: write errors: [The dollar ($) prefixed field '$set'
> in '$set' is not allowed in the context of an update's replacement
> document. Consider using an aggregation pipeline with $replaceWith.]"

Use a filter that also excludes documents having the status you want to add. This filter will match no documents if the status already exists in the array. The update operation will only be carried out if the status is not yet added:

var newStatusToAdd = ... // This is the new statusData document you want to add

filter := bson.M{
    "_id": obId,
    "statusData.status": bson.M{"$ne": p.Status},
}
update := bson.M{
    "$push": bson.M{
        "statusData": newStatusToAdd,
    },
    "$set": doc,
}

result, err := r.collection.UpdateOne(ctx, filter, update)
if err != nil {
    // Handle error
    return
}
if result.MatchedCount == 0 {
    // The status already exists in statusData
} else if result.ModifiedCount == 1 {
    // new status was added successfuly
}