Java Stax how to get only value of specific child nodes

I use Stax for get nodeName and nodeValue of my xml file (size 90 MB) :

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<name1>
    <type>
        <coord>67</coord>
        <umc>57657</umc>
    </type>
    <lang>
        <eng>989</eng>
        <spa>123</spa>
    </lang>
</name1>
<name2>
    <type>
        <coord>534</coord>
        <umc>654654</umc>
    </type>
    <lang>
        <eng>354</eng>
        <spa>2424</spa>
    </lang>
</name2>
<name3>
    <type>
        <coord>23432</coord>
        <umc>14324</umc>
    </type>
    <lang>
        <eng>141</eng>
        <spa>142</spa>
    </lang>
</name3>

I can get localName but not child nodes... if I want to get the value for all child nodes different of 'spa' how can I process to get that ?

Java:

XMLStreamReader dataXML = factory.createXMLStreamReader(new FileReader(path));
while (dataXML.hasNext())
{
    int type = dataXML.next();
    switch(type)
    {
        case XMLStreamReader.START_ELEMENT:
             System.out.println(dataXML.getLocalName());
             break;

        case XMLStreamReader.CHARACTERS:
             System.out.println(dataXML.getText());
             break;
     }
}

You use StAX parsing. It means You pull events from a parser. StAX parsing doesn't have any information about detail structure of Your document.
Please check Differences between DOM, SAX or StAX and Java StAX parser

If You want to get children of Your XML element, You need to track it by Yourself.

If You really want children being accessed in a convenient way - use DOM parsing strategy. But as You've mentioned, Your document is ~90MB what may be really heavy to load it fully.

To keep track of element being parsed it's needed to introduce variable holding the current tag name as well as the variable with the tag name(s) of interest:

   String localname = null;
   String tagName = "spa";

    while (dataXML.hasNext()) {
        int type = dataXML.next();
        switch (type) {

            case XMLStreamReader.SPACE:
                continue;

            case XMLStreamReader.START_ELEMENT:
                localname = dataXML.getLocalName();
                System.out.println(dataXML.getLocalName());
                break;

            case XMLStreamReader.CHARACTERS:
                if (!tagName.equals(localname)) {
                    System.out.println(dataXML.getText());
                }
                break;
        }
    }

In case there are several tags you want to handle, variable tagName could be replaced with a list:

List<String> tagNames = new ArrayList<>();
tagNames.add("spa");

And the check would be following:

if (!tagNames.contains(localname)) {
    System.out.println(dataXML.getText());
}