How can I get rid of this data race

I have these 2 functions:

// PartyHub struct contains all data for the party
type PartyHub struct {
	FullPartys    map[string]Party
	PartialPartys map[string]Party
	Enter         chan Member
	Leave         chan Member
	sync.Mutex
}


// RemoveFromQueue will remove the member from party
func (p *PartyHub) RemoveFromQueue(memberLeaving Member, inQueue bool) {
	if !inQueue {
		return
	}
	for _, party := range p.PartialPartys {
		go func(party Party) {
			if _, ok := party.Members[memberLeaving.Identifier]; ok {
				p.Lock()
->>>>>>>>		delete(party.Members, memberLeaving.Identifier)
				p.Unlock()
			}
		}(party)
	}
	log.Println("Removing")
}

// SortIntoParty will sort the member into party
func (p *PartyHub) SortIntoParty(newMember Member, inQueue bool) {
    log.Println(inQueue)
	if inQueue {
		return
	}
	log.Println("Adding")
	foundParty := false
->> for partyid, party := range p.PartialPartys {
		if !party.Accepting {
			continue
		}

		goodFitForParty := true
		for _, partyMember := range party.Members {
			if newMember.Type == partyMember.Type && newMember.Rank >= partyMember.Rank-partyMember.RankTol && newMember.Rank <= partyMember.Rank+partyMember.RankTol {
				goodFitForParty = true
				continue
			} else {
				goodFitForParty = false
				break
			}
		}

		if !goodFitForParty {
			continue
		} else {
			foundParty = true
			newMember.Conn.CurrentParty = partyid
			p.Lock()
			p.PartialPartys[partyid].Members[newMember.Conn.Identifier] = newMember
			p.Unlock()
			if len(party.Members) == 2 {
				p.Lock()
				party.Accepting = false
				p.Unlock()
				// Start Go Routine
			}
			break
		}
	}
	if !foundParty {
		uuid := feeds.NewUUID().String()
		newMember.Conn.CurrentParty = uuid
		p.Lock()
		p.PartialPartys[uuid] = Party{Accepting: true, Members: make(map[string]Member), Ready: make(chan *Connection), Decline: make(chan *Connection)}
		p.PartialPartys[uuid].Members[newMember.Conn.Identifier] = newMember
		p.Unlock()
	}
}

I put ->>>>>> next to where the 2 pieces of code are being accessed, I'm not sure how I can keep these 2 up to date without being in a data race, fairly new to go and wondering how I should be reading and writing this variable without a data-race.

You've got a lot of code in your question, but it looks like you're trying to delete elements from a map (party.Members) in one goroutine, while looping over it in another. This sounds like an unmaintainable, error-ridden disaster in the making, but it's possible to do without memory races.

You need a mutex to protect access (both read and write) to the map, and the hard part is to make sure the lock is held during the for/range iteration. Here's one way to do it, by having the lock held before the for loop starts, and unlocking it inside the body of the loop.

var mut sync.Mutex
var m = map[string]int{}

func f(key string) {
    mut.Lock()
    defer mut.Unlock()
    delete(m, key)
}

func g() {
    mut.Lock()
    defer mut.Unlock()
    for k, v := range m {
        mut.Unlock()
        fmt.Println(k, v)
        mut.Lock()
    }
}

Here, any combination of fs and gs can be called concurrently without memory races.

Drastically simpler to understand would be to not Unlock/Lock the mutex inside the loop, which would mean a deletion in f would wait for any running loop in g to complete (or vice-versa).